Building Connections

Being connected to our children is so vital to their well being. True connections are necessary for children to gain a sense of safety in an insecure world. Knowing that you are in control and dependable helps children grow and develop.

Understand that connections aren't built by accomplishing your everyday tasks, like making breakfast or --for teachers, passing out folders. Connections are built when meaning takes place in the task at hand. Breakfast CAN become a connection if there is eye contact and the conversation is about something meaningful to THE CHILD.

Passing out folders can become a connection point IF there is constant positive reinforcement and you connect the task with the character of the person. An example would be: Samantha, you're passing out the folders for me. This shows how responsible you are and that you are committed to serving. This shows great character. --with eye contact---I appreciate you.

Simple. Yet a connection is built.

How can you connect with a child today? Is there something that you do already that can become a CONNECTION POINT--a time or place where you can truly build into a child's life?? Think about it, try it...share it!